Saturday, January 31, 2009
Friday, January 30, 2009
something to remember... something to share...
Sent: Friday, January 23, 2009 3:00 PM
Subject: An overdue e-mail from me ... so it's just for your reading pleasure only
Hey gal...
Sorry, cldn;t talk to you much last week! Anyways hopefully this mail helps sorts your thinking out or somewat helps...
….XXXXXXXXXX......
... To have ur heart broken is entirely another experience. To have ur heart broken means that u've exposed yourself in the most vulnerable ways to someone you perceived as worthy. Personally, to have my heart broken means that I've allowed my heart's protective barrier to not only be penetrated, but to be torn down completely.
Broken hearts, many times, result in broken spirits, and your spirit is what characterizes your personality and the functions of your mind. A broken spirit makes us question areas in our life we once thought were secure and stable. We subconsciously find ourselves asking "Why?" when there's really no logical explanation. Those of us who have encountered broken hearts must go through a reconstructive period, piecing back together our lives, our identities, our perceptions, and our independence.
You, a dear friend of mine , is plagued with a lost and confused mind, and all I can do is to offer u words of encouragement. It is not my place, or anyone else's place as a friend, to criticize u and the choices u have made in ur relationship. Remember, wherever you go, people’s gonna make this this statement “ See I told you so” ... It is hard to avoid being judgmental.. cos I'm one such culprit but it is my responsibility as a friend to let u decide how you wld like to grieve in ur own way. All I can do is to offer my ear to listen, my shoulder on which u could lean and cry and my encouraging words with hopes of enlighting ur darkness.
Just move on in life... Know yourself, love yourself, and appreciate yourself. Capitalize on your abilities and continue to shine like the star that you are. Don't allow your surface to become dull with bitterness when your radiance has served as a guiding light for so many others. Come to the realization that "Why?" is a rhetorical question. It is not for you to answer. Love is not logical. Love is not rational. Answers that seem nonexistent mysteriously become evident over time. Take time to hear. Take time to analyze and evaluate. Take time to define yourself as an individual. Don't let an unfortunate twist of fate regulate the unlimited assets you possess. Be a diamond in the rough. Be the color turquiose standing out from all others.
Be a woman among girls. Be love and all that it has to offer. Be you and be comfortable with you.
Well, i have no idea if i did ease you with my boring theory but whatever the case is, ultimately it's your decision, the ball was never in his court when it comes to loss ... (",)
Cheers …
M
" Thank you for your note... and thank you for being there...."
Subject: An overdue e-mail from me ... so it's just for your reading pleasure only
Hey gal...
Sorry, cldn;t talk to you much last week! Anyways hopefully this mail helps sorts your thinking out or somewat helps...
….XXXXXXXXXX......
... To have ur heart broken is entirely another experience. To have ur heart broken means that u've exposed yourself in the most vulnerable ways to someone you perceived as worthy. Personally, to have my heart broken means that I've allowed my heart's protective barrier to not only be penetrated, but to be torn down completely.
Broken hearts, many times, result in broken spirits, and your spirit is what characterizes your personality and the functions of your mind. A broken spirit makes us question areas in our life we once thought were secure and stable. We subconsciously find ourselves asking "Why?" when there's really no logical explanation. Those of us who have encountered broken hearts must go through a reconstructive period, piecing back together our lives, our identities, our perceptions, and our independence.
You, a dear friend of mine , is plagued with a lost and confused mind, and all I can do is to offer u words of encouragement. It is not my place, or anyone else's place as a friend, to criticize u and the choices u have made in ur relationship. Remember, wherever you go, people’s gonna make this this statement “ See I told you so” ... It is hard to avoid being judgmental.. cos I'm one such culprit but it is my responsibility as a friend to let u decide how you wld like to grieve in ur own way. All I can do is to offer my ear to listen, my shoulder on which u could lean and cry and my encouraging words with hopes of enlighting ur darkness.
Just move on in life... Know yourself, love yourself, and appreciate yourself. Capitalize on your abilities and continue to shine like the star that you are. Don't allow your surface to become dull with bitterness when your radiance has served as a guiding light for so many others. Come to the realization that "Why?" is a rhetorical question. It is not for you to answer. Love is not logical. Love is not rational. Answers that seem nonexistent mysteriously become evident over time. Take time to hear. Take time to analyze and evaluate. Take time to define yourself as an individual. Don't let an unfortunate twist of fate regulate the unlimited assets you possess. Be a diamond in the rough. Be the color turquiose standing out from all others.
Be a woman among girls. Be love and all that it has to offer. Be you and be comfortable with you.
Well, i have no idea if i did ease you with my boring theory but whatever the case is, ultimately it's your decision, the ball was never in his court when it comes to loss ... (",)
Cheers …
M
" Thank you for your note... and thank you for being there...."
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
my companion
those that knoe me will prob know me for losing things...
quite frankly im one of those who either have half a dozen of pens in my bag or none...
this xmas... i was given a pretti pen... hmmm.... does it mean i have to take special care now??
我的pen... 我的伴
Saturday, January 03, 2009
delayed broadcast
its already the 3rd.. and yes... im only at the pluses and minuses of 2008
+ssss
Manage to convince my parents to redo the home layout and everyone is getting the space we longed for
Left the island and my comfort zone
Got to be really close to a bunch of fun girlies... the only blessing in disguise
ah fok proposed and succeeded...
annette have a baby...
i got reaquainted with an old time crush! hahah
im done with my studies
climb the great wall
did the real run!
+ssss
Manage to convince my parents to redo the home layout and everyone is getting the space we longed for
Left the island and my comfort zone
Got to be really close to a bunch of fun girlies... the only blessing in disguise
ah fok proposed and succeeded...
annette have a baby...
i got reaquainted with an old time crush! hahah
im done with my studies
climb the great wall
did the real run!
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